Friday, January 28, 2005
as I can't say this to the person concerned, I have to say it somewhere.
it's really unfair to other infertile women to put up a link to "our babies' website" in your discussion group signature, if the link in question contains a photo of a clearly dead foetus. two of the babies on the site were on life support - rereading her signature, one survived. but the third, which I only glimpsed for a second before I closed the window as fast as I could, wasn't, and was never going to make it.
I ache for her. I can understand having the photos. but putting them where other people may stumble over them without realising what they're in for - not fair.
I feel awful.
it's really unfair to other infertile women to put up a link to "our babies' website" in your discussion group signature, if the link in question contains a photo of a clearly dead foetus. two of the babies on the site were on life support - rereading her signature, one survived. but the third, which I only glimpsed for a second before I closed the window as fast as I could, wasn't, and was never going to make it.
I ache for her. I can understand having the photos. but putting them where other people may stumble over them without realising what they're in for - not fair.
I feel awful.
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